It's the rewards we want. It's a new way of looking at luxury goods. The next time you see somebody driving a Ferrari, don't think, "This is somebody who's greedy." Think, "This is somebody who is incredibly vulnerable and in need of love." Feel sympathy, rather than contempt.
孩子完全接受——甚至渴望——家規(guī)。「在我們家,我們對(duì) X 有一個(gè)規(guī)矩」是家長(zhǎng)設(shè)立家庭規(guī)范時(shí)所需的唯一理由。事實(shí)上,「我對(duì) X 有一個(gè)規(guī)矩」是你給自己設(shè)定規(guī)范所需的唯一理由。