阿蘭·德波頓（Alain de Botton），英國(guó)作家，1969年出生于瑞士蘇黎世，畢業(yè)于英國(guó)劍橋大學(xué)。著有小說(shuō)《愛(ài)情筆記》、《愛(ài)上浪漫》、《親吻與訴說(shuō)》及散文作品《擁抱逝水年華》、《哲學(xué)的慰藉》、《旅行的藝術(shù)》、《身份的焦慮》等。
The thought of death should usher us towards whatever happens to matter most to us; it should lend us the courage to pursue the way of life we value in our hearts.
The motor of our ingenuity is the question ‘Does it have to be like this?’, from which arise political reforms, scientific developments, improved relationships, better books.
In the end, I've found that it doesn't really matter who you marry. If you like them at the beginning, you probably won't like them at the end. And if you start off hating them, there's always the chance you'll end up thinking they're all right.
A fine remedy for our anxieties over our low status in society may be to travel—whether literally or figuratively, by viewing works of art—through the gigantic spaces of the world.
